Dear Christine: Everything was going great with the woman I'm dating -- until we had sex for the first time. The next morning she opened my bed-stand drawer and spotted a couple of porn magazines. Disgusted, she read page by page, making disapproving comments. "Oh, I'm sure she said this!" Blah, blah, blah. I didn't know what to do. -- SHAMED, MEMPHIS, TENN.

If these are standard girly magazines and not something that would put you on an FBI warning list, a confident woman would've chalked it up to "boys will be boys."

She was way out of line by ridiculing you after snooping through your private belongings. Just because you got into her drawers that night doesn't give her the right to snoop through your drawers the next morning.

Recovery programs will tell you that until an addict has been clean and sober for at least a year, he is in no condition to be in a relationship.

You are putting your future happiness in the hands of a man who is not equipped to keep promises. I suggest you kick the habit of trying to fix him.

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